How to Protect Children in High Conflict Coparenting with Jill Barnett Kaufman

In this enlightening conversation, Jill Barnett Kaufman shares her expertise on co-parenting, drawing from her personal experiences and professional background as a therapist and divorce coach. She discusses the complexities of navigating co-parenting relationships, especially in high-conflict situations, and emphasizes the importance of communication, boundaries, and supporting children through the emotional challenges of divorce. Jill also highlights the evolving landscape of divorce support, including the rise of mediation and coaching, and offers valuable advice for those considering remarriage and blending familiesLearn more about Jill Barnett Kaufman’s coaching, therapy and mediation work at: https://www.divorcecoachjill.com/Get the BestInterest Coparenting App: https://bestinterest.app/Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/nuEbN99zwjgSubscribe to our newsletter to hear about new episodes and build community: https://bestinterest.app/subscribe-podcast/Keywordsco-parenting, divorce, parenting strategies, high conflict, communication, family dynamics, support groups, healing, boundaries, remarriageKey TakeawaysCo-parenting requires a shift from couple dynamics to a colleague-like relationship.Respect and communication are key in co-parenting.The BIFF method helps manage communication with high-conflict individuals.Setting clear boundaries is essential in co-parenting.Journaling and support groups can aid in emotional healing.Children should not be burdened with adult conflicts.Encouraging children to maintain relationships with both parents is crucial.Awareness of parental alienation and narcissism is increasing.People are seeking alternatives to traditional divorce methods.Take time to understand yourself before entering a new relationship.Sound Bites"You have to respect each other.""The BIFF method is a great tool.""Journaling is really good."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Challenges03:45 Transitioning from Partners to Co-Parents06:18 Navigating High Conflict Situations08:14 Setting Boundaries in Co-Parenting10:26 Supporting Children Through Divorce13:07 Communication Strategies for Co-Parents15:17 The Importance of Collaboration vs. Parallel Parenting17:32 Recognizing and Avoiding Manipulative Behaviors19:55 Trends in Co-Parenting and Divorce22:18 Advice for Remarriage and Blended Families24:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement29:14 Outro29:56 DisclaimerWhat if your co-parent’s toxic messages never even reached you? Thousands of parents are already finding peace with the BestInterest Coparenting App. As a listener, you can too. Claim 40% off an annual subscription here: https://bestinterest.app/beyond