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EPISODE · Aug 25, 2025 · 22 MIN

How to Shut Down That Mean Girl in Your Head

from Divorce with Sam and Leah · host Sam and Leah

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I should’ve known better,” or “I’m failing my kids,”—this episode is for you.Negative self-talk after a toxic relationship or divorce is so common, and yet, nobody really talks about how damaging it can be. The guilt, the shame, the feelings of failure… We’ve felt it all. And for a long time, we believed every harsh thing we said to ourselves.But learning how to shift that inner voice? It changed everything—how we showed up as moms, the decisions we made for our future, and the way we saw ourselves.In this episode, we’re sharing:The sneaky ways negative self-talk shows upWhy your inner critic isn't actually your voice10 powerful tools to stop the spiral and start rebuilding confidenceHow to start talking to yourself like someone you loveBecause you’re not broken—you’re rebuilding. And you deserve to feel safe, seen, and whole in your own mind.Let’s quiet the mean girl in your head and help you reconnect with your truth.👉 Ready to keep healing and reconnect with who you are outside of the pain? The Next Chapter is my monthly membership for moms ready to rebuild their confidence, set boundaries, and co-parent with strength and clarity. You don’t have to do this alone.Join us here: https://www.samandleah.com/services

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “I should’ve known better,” or “I’m failing my kids,”—this episode is for you.Negative self-talk after a toxic relationship or divorce is so common, and yet, nobody really talks about how damaging it can be. The guilt, the shame, the feelings of failure… We’ve felt it all. And for a long time, we believed every harsh thing we said to ourselves.But learning how to shift that inner voice? It changed everything—how we showed up as moms, the decisions we made for our future, and the way we saw ourselves.In this episode, we’re sharing:The sneaky ways negative self-talk shows upWhy your inner critic isn't actually your voice10 powerful tools to stop the spiral and start rebuilding confidenceHow to start talking to yourself like someone you loveBecause you’re not broken—you’re rebuilding. And you deserve to feel safe, seen, and whole in your own mind.Let’s quiet the mean girl in your head and help you reconnect with your truth.👉 Ready to keep healing and reconnect with who you are outside of the pain? The Next Chapter is my monthly membership for moms ready to rebuild their confidence, set boundaries, and co-parent with strength and clarity. You don’t have to do this alone.Join us here: https://www.samandleah.com/services

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