How To Stand Out at a Singles Event | Ep. 189

Asian Matchmaker May and New York City matchmaker Alina Fattakhova sit down to discuss what it really takes to build meaningful relationships in today's dating world. Alina shares how her own dating experiences led her to become a matchmaker, why consistency is the key to forming lasting connections, and how singles can make the most of dating events and mixers. She also explains why being too rigid with your checklist can hold you back, encouraging listeners to give someone a chance if they meet most of their core criteria. From identifying the importance of shared values and energy to offering practical tips for successful dating, this episode is full of actionable advice for anyone looking to find a lasting relationship.0:00 Introduction to Alina Fattakhova2:52 A matchmaker is born based on fixing our own problems3:45 Is New York a tough place to date? Impatient?5:35 Alina’s singles, speaker, and mixers success7:24 Consistency is what creates relationships and friendships9:00 How to act to be a successful event attendee13:57 If he meets 50% of your criteria, meet him!17:33 Values and energy is really the key23:00 Use events to check out the clients, database people27:00 Alina’s advice about meaningful relationships33:35 Alina’s best dating tipsAlina Fattakhova is the founder of Beau Monde Matchmaking, a boutique matchmaking firm that helps ambitious, relationship-minded professionals build meaningful, lasting relationships. A certified relationship coach and experienced matchmaker, she combines personalized matchmaking with practical coaching to help clients navigate modern dating with confidence, authenticity, and intention.P: (917) 756-0816E: [email protected] https://www.beaumondematchmaking.comJoin The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileCall May for help: (310) 867-0851Email: [email protected]: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Maxim, NY Post, Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.*AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB