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EPISODE · Jun 2, 2025 · 17 MIN

How to stop being hard on yourself

from Beneath the Surface · host Shannon Beer

If you're someone who is driven, self-aware, and constantly pushing to do better, but often feel like it's never enough... this episode is for you.We’re unpacking why self-criticism can feel like a motivator but actually undermines your goals, and how to build a stronger relationship with yourself using science-backed self-compassion skills.You’ll learn:Why that inner critical voice feels familiar (and why it doesn’t actually help)The difference between self-reflection and hostile self-attackingWhat real self-compassion is—hint: it’s not fluffy or softHow compassion affects your nervous system, motivation, and mental healthPractical tools to treat yourself with more respect without lowering your standardsWhether you're stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, perfectionism, or just exhausted from trying to do everything 'right' - this episode will help you take the pressure off without giving up on your goals.More Resources:Grab the free mini-course: Emotion Systems Audit – Download hereConnect with Shannon on Instagram: @coachshannonbeerLearn more about compassion coaching: get the details here

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