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EPISODE · Apr 7, 2026 · 6 MIN

How to Stop Chasing the Next Goal and Finally Feel Like You Are Enough

from Thinking Out Loud · host Lexie Loman

You finally hit the goal — the weight, the revenue, the degree, the promotion — and instead of celebrating, your brain immediately says “Okay, but now you need…”If that just made you sigh, this episode is for you.In this powerful installment of Thinking Out Loud, licensed therapist Lexie Loman introduces Never Enough Nancy — the shame gremlin that keeps high-achievers trapped in an endless cycle of “one more thing.” No matter how much you accomplish, Nancy raises the bar higher and whispers that you’re still not enough.You’ll learn:How Never Enough Nancy develops and the exact ways she moves the finish lineWhy chasing the next goal from a place of lack never brings lasting peaceThe simple Goat technique (bleat “Shaaa-ame!” and drop a truth bomb) that interrupts Nancy in the momentHow to celebrate wins, rest without guilt, and start feeling enough exactly as you areLexie shares her personal journey of chasing certifications, achievements, and “one more thing” — and how the Goat finally helped her shift from proving herself to peace and gratitude.You are already enough.That’s the truth.You don’t have to stop growing — you just get to stop growing from lack.Practicing this builds more peace and gratitude than years of chasing ever will. Good enough is feast for your goat.Ready to quiet Nancy today?👉 Take the FREE Gremlins & Goats Quiz for a 7-day email sequence to start starving shame: https://lighthouseokc.com👉 Grab the full $57 Gremlins & Goats Mini-Course (PDF book + audiobook + workbook + videos + bonuses): https://lighthouseokc.comThanks for thinking out loud with me — here’s to leading a life you love.#NeverEnoughSyndrome #InnerCritic #PerfectionismRecovery #PeoplePleaser #ShameResilience #GremlinsAndGoats #HighAchievingWomen #SelfWorth #MentalHealthPodcast

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You finally hit the goal — the weight, the revenue, the degree, the promotion — and instead of celebrating, your brain immediately says “Okay, but now you need…” If that just made you sigh, this episode is for you. In this powerful installment of Thinking Out Loud, licensed therapist Lexie Loman introduces Never Enough Nancy — the shame gremlin that keeps high-achievers trapped in an endless cycle of “one more thing.” No matter how much you accomplish, Nancy raises the bar higher and whispers...

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