How to Stop Choosing the Wrong Partner | FT: Julia Cordova

How to Stop Choosing the Wrong Partner | FT: Julia CordovaCONNECT WITH CHARLENEOn Instagram @mscharlenebyars (https://www.instagram.com/mscharlenebyars/?hl=en)On YouTube @chosentraining (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAEFkimtIowqoyz1_lnF8Rg)Work with me HERE (https://charlenebyars.com/)CONNECT WITH JULIAOn Instagarm @ask_julia_ (https://www.instagram.com/ask_julia_?igsh=MWprNDJwbG5zaTg4dA==)For Collaboration Contact Her: [email protected] do we keep falling for the same "wrong" guy, even when our gut warns us?In this episode, dating and mindset expert Julia Cordova (Ask Julia) shares her revolutionary framework for navigating the modern dating jungle: Dating like a recruiter.Julia opens up about leaving a long-term, unfulfilling relationship, conquering her own anxious attachment style, and utilizing her professional recruiting background—where she interviewed over 10,000 candidates, to completely rewire her approach to love. We break down the hidden cycles of cognitive dissonance, why women give away too many brownie points to men who are "wishy-washy," and how to step into your ultimate value so you naturally attract the commitment you deserve.We cover in this Episode:0:00 — Intro & teaser clips1:30 — Host reads Julia's bio3:00 — How Julia got into dating coaching5:00 — Julia's background: first novel, fascination with boys6:00 — Leaving her 13-year relationship, entering the dating world8:00 — The recruiting mindset applied to dating11:00 — Julia's relationship history & anxious attachment14:00 — Dating as healing: what relationships reveal about you18:00 — Self-awareness vs. actually doing the work22:00 — Common patterns: dating the wrong guy26:00 — Why men who like you are crystal clear29:00 — Why dating multiple people at once matters33:00 — The recruiter/numbers game analogy37:00 — Dating with intention: how to communicate it honestly41:00 — Physical intimacy & attachment hormones44:00 — Do women find healthy relationships boring?48:00 — How Julia met her fiancé54:00 — Her 3 date questions56:00 — What women unintentionally abandon: ignoring gut instincts1:01:00 — Trusting your gut vs. trauma bonding confusion1:05:00 — Attracting the same men: reverse engineer your selection1:10:00 — #1 shift: just date, date, date1:14:00 — How Julia's fiancé responded to her dating others1:17:00 — Hard truth: look internally1:20:00 — Coffee dates vs. longer first dates1:25:00 — Safety tips & date time strategy1:29:00 — What goes viral: pre-selection & jealousy1:33:00 — You are the prize1:35:00 — How to work with Julia / closing wordsIf you are tired of wasting months on situationships and are ready to date with absolute intention, this episode is your blueprint.