EPISODE · Jun 2, 2026 · 10 MIN
How to Stop Downplaying Your Wins at Work
from Career Confidence with Fexingo: Imposter Syndrome, Self-Promotion, and Owning Your Worth · host Fexingo
In this episode of Career Confidence with Fexingo, Lucas and Luna explore why so many professionals instinctively downplay their achievements — and how to break the habit. Lucas shares a specific study from Cornell showing that people who downplay their wins are perceived as less competent, not more likable. Luna pushes back on the fear of seeming arrogant, and together they walk through a three-step framework called 'Claim, Connect, Continue' for owning accomplishments without bragging. They also discuss how to handle the discomfort of praise and why your brain's negativity bias makes you want to deflect. If you've ever said 'it was nothing' after a big win, this episode will give you better words. #Careers #ImposterSyndrome #SelfPromotion #DownplayingWins #CornellStudy #ClaimConnectContinue #NegativityBias #OwningYourWorth #CareerConfidence #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #LucasAndLuna #AchievementAnxiety #HumilityTrap #ProfessionalGrowth #PraiseDiscomfort #Acknowledgment #WorkplacePsychology Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
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In this episode of Career Confidence with Fexingo, Lucas and Luna explore why so many professionals instinctively downplay their achievements — and how to break the habit. Lucas shares a specific study from Cornell showing that people who downplay their wins are perceived as less competent, not more likable. Luna pushes back on the fear of seeming arrogant, and together they walk through a three-step framework called 'Claim, Connect, Continue' for owning accomplishments without bragging. They also discuss how to handle the discomfort of praise and why your brain's negativity bias makes you want to deflect. If you've ever said 'it was nothing' after a big win, this episode will give you better words. #Careers #ImposterSyndrome #SelfPromotion #DownplayingWins #CornellStudy #ClaimConnectContinue #NegativityBias #OwningYourWorth #CareerConfidence #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #LucasAndLuna #AchievementAnxiety #HumilityTrap #ProfessionalGrowth #PraiseDiscomfort #Acknowledgment #WorkplacePsychology Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo
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