How To Stop People-Pleasing as a Christian Woman | Boundaries Without Guilt (E13) episode artwork

EPISODE · Mar 11, 2026 · 14 MIN

How To Stop People-Pleasing as a Christian Woman | Boundaries Without Guilt (E13)

from Christian Mental Health for Women | The Pert Plan™ · host Pam Litchford, LPC

Do you say yes when you want to say no?Do you feel responsible for everyone’s happiness?Are you a Christian woman struggling with people-pleasing, anxiety, and guilt?In this episode, we talk about how to stop people-pleasing as a Christian woman — and how to set boundaries without becoming cold, selfish, or harsh.You’ll learn:• Why people-pleasing is rooted in fear, not kindness• How anxiety and your nervous system reinforce it• What the Bible says about approval and peace• Practical steps to say no without drowning in guiltIf you’re tired of being “nice” at your own expense, this episode will help you reclaim your yes — and protect your peace.Because you are not Holy Spirit Junior. 😉This episode is part of The Pert Plan™, a Christian mental health podcast  grounded in biblical truth and evidence-based wisdom to help you challenge lies, renew your mind, and grow courageous faith.Follow on Instagram @thepertplanLegal Disclaimer - This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health treatment or therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counseling relationship between the host and the listener. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for individualized support. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact local 911 emergency services or call/text 988 National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline for immediate assistance.Scripture Quotation Notice (NIV)Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version® (NIV®), copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

Do you say yes when you want to say no?Do you feel responsible for everyone’s happiness?Are you a Christian woman struggling with people-pleasing, anxiety, and guilt?In this episode, we talk about how to stop people-pleasing as a Christian woman — and how to set boundaries without becoming cold, selfish, or harsh.You’ll learn:• Why people-pleasing is rooted in fear, not kindness• How anxiety and your nervous system reinforce it• What the Bible says about approval and peace• Practical steps to say no without drowning in guiltIf you’re tired of being “nice” at your own expense, this episode will help you reclaim your yes — and protect your peace.Because you are not Holy Spirit Junior. 😉This episode is part of The Pert Plan™, a Christian mental health podcast  grounded in biblical truth and evidence-based wisdom to help you challenge lies, renew your mind, and grow courageous faith.Follow on Instagram @thepertplanLegal Disclaimer - This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health treatment or therapy. Listening to this podcast does not establish a counseling relationship between the host and the listener. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for individualized support. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact local 911 emergency services or call/text 988 National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline for immediate assistance.Scripture Quotation Notice (NIV)Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New International Version® (NIV®), copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

NOW PLAYING

How To Stop People-Pleasing as a Christian Woman | Boundaries Without Guilt (E13)

0:00 14:57

No transcript for this episode yet

We transcribe on demand. Request one and we'll notify you when it's ready — usually under 10 minutes.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is this episode of Christian Mental Health for Women | The Pert Plan™?

This episode is 14 minutes long.

When was this Christian Mental Health for Women | The Pert Plan™ episode published?

This episode was published on March 11, 2026.

What is this episode about?

Do you say yes when you want to say no?Do you feel responsible for everyone’s happiness?Are you a Christian woman struggling with people-pleasing, anxiety, and guilt?In this episode, we talk about how to stop people-pleasing as a Christian woman —...

Can I download this Christian Mental Health for Women | The Pert Plan™ episode?

Yes, you can download this episode by clicking the download button on the episode player, or subscribe to the podcast in your preferred podcast app for automatic downloads.
URL copied to clipboard!