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EPISODE · Jun 4, 2025 · 9 MIN

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty

from The Happya Life with Clare Deacon

🪷If something in this spoke to you, I’d love to hear, message me.In this episode of The Happya Life Podcast, I’m speaking directly to the givers, the ones who say yes, who show up, who keep the peace even when it costs them their own wellbeing.If you’ve ever felt guilty for putting yourself first, this one’s for you.We’re diving deep into the roots of people-pleasing, not as a flaw, but as a survival pattern. We’ll explore how over-giving often starts in childhood, how guilt is not a sign you’re selfish but a signal you’re doing something new, and how to begin setting boundaries without betraying your kindness.This isn’t about swinging from selfless to selfish. It’s about learning to choose you without losing what makes you caring and connected.You’ll hear:Why people-pleasing becomes identityHow to pause before a yes and sit with discomfortSmall steps to reclaim your voice and valuesWhy boundaries are an act of self-respect, not rejectionIf you’re tired of disappearing in your own life, and ready to stop editing yourself to keep everyone else comfortable, this episode is your gentle call home.Let’s Stay Connected: Your Journey Deserves SupportEmail Clare Directly: [email protected] by LemonMusicStudio

🪷If something in this spoke to you, I’d love to hear, message me. In this episode of The Happya Life Podcast, I’m speaking directly to the givers, the ones who say yes, who show up, who keep the peace even when it costs them their own wellbeing. If you’ve ever felt guilty for putting yourself first, this one’s for you. We’re diving deep into the roots of people-pleasing, not as a flaw, but as a survival pattern. We’ll explore how over-giving often starts in childhood, how guilt is not a sign ...

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