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EPISODE · Apr 23, 2026 · 38 MIN

How To Tell The Difference Between Real Desire And Social Programming

from Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre · host Hilary & Les

Ask us a Question or Leave a Comment!We take on a listener question that sounds simple but changes everything: do we choose our desires, or are our desires shaped by need, fear, and social conditioning. We sort needs from wants, use quick tests to spot programming, and point back to self-knowledge as the clearest path to real motivation.• defining needs vs wants vs desires so we can communicate clearly• noticing how comfort seeking hides inside “small” cravings• separating higher mind desires from socially guided desires• using the deathbed regret test to clarify what matters• using the “because” filter to reveal conditioning• revisiting Maslow’s hierarchy of needs as a motivation map• questioning whether belonging has become the modern base need• stepping away from politics and blame to focus on inner change• leaving open questions about internal vs external desire originsSupport the showWe  hope this helps a little as you go through your day.We would love to hear your feedback or questions.We will respond to both in future episodes.  Check us out at www.somhypnosis.comJoin our online Community! https://www.skool.com/infinite-mind-school/aboutEmail us [email protected] your own podcast with Buzzsprout!https://www.buzzsprout.com/?referrer_id=1810507Support Coffee With Hilary & Leshttps://www.buzzsprout.com/1829917/support

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