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EPISODE · May 21, 2026 · 57 MIN

How Toxic Relationships Rewire Your Reality

from Mirror Mirror On the Mic · host malissamatia

How do the beliefs we formed about ourselves years ago quietly shape the relationships we choose, the pain we tolerate, and the stories we continue to repeat? In this episode, I sit down with clinical psychologist and Awareness Integration Theory founder Dr. Foojan Zeine for a deep conversation about toxic relationship dynamics, emotional conditioning, trauma bonds, narcissistic tendencies, identity loss, and what it actually takes to heal. We talk about how people unconsciously search for evidence to confirm painful beliefs they formed early in life, why toxic relationships can feel familiar or addictive, how gaslighting and emotional manipulation impact the nervous system, and why awareness is the first step toward real transformation. This conversation is compassionate, insightful, and honestly one that I think will resonate with so many people who have ever questioned themselves inside a relationship. If you’ve ever wondered: • Why do I keep ending up in the same patterns? • Why is it so hard to leave emotionally unhealthy dynamics? • Why do I keep abandoning myself to be chosen? • How do I finally break free and heal? …this episode is for you. Because healing doesn’t start with perfection. It starts with awareness. You can find Dr. Zeine at https://foojanzeine.com/ and her app https://foojan.com/ And if you are thinking you want to work with ME....here is the link to my 21 Day Reset https://stan.store/MalissaConnorsCoaching/p/21-day-hot-girl-reset

How do the beliefs we formed about ourselves years ago quietly shape the relationships we choose, the pain we tolerate, and the stories we continue to repeat? In this episode, I sit down with clinical psychologist and Awareness Integration Theory founder Dr. Foojan Zeine for a deep conversation about toxic relationship dynamics, emotional conditioning, trauma bonds, narcissistic tendencies, identity loss, and what it actually takes to heal. We talk about how people unconsciously search for evidence to confirm painful beliefs they formed early in life, why toxic relationships can feel familiar or addictive, how gaslighting and emotional manipulation impact the nervous system, and why awareness is the first step toward real transformation. This conversation is compassionate, insightful, and honestly one that I think will resonate with so many people who have ever questioned themselves inside a relationship. If you’ve ever wondered:• Why do I keep ending up in the same patterns?• Why is it so hard to leave emotionally unhealthy dynamics?• Why do I keep abandoning myself to be chosen?• How do I finally break free and heal? …this episode is for you. Because healing doesn’t start with perfection.It starts with awareness. You can find Dr. Zeine at https://foojanzeine.com/ and her app https://foojan.com/ And if you are thinking you want to work with ME....here is the link to my 21 Day Reset https://stan.store/MalissaConnorsCoaching/p/21-day-hot-girl-reset

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