How Violations of Love and Trust Construct Your Pain Cycle

One of the tools that has changed my life in such an amazing way...that at times it's really hard to explain...is learning the Pain and Peace Cycle in the work of Terry Hargrave in his Restoration Therapy model. In fact, in Episode 21 of this podcast I talked about how it can change your life, your relationships, as well as church organizations and corporations. In fact, I have taught the Pain and Peace Cycle in all these settings and see it do just that...change lives.   So this week I wanted to dive in a bit more deep on this topic, but in a short manner. The reason, I get a lot of people contacting me about what the Pain and Peace Cycle is. They see me write about it, post about it on social media, or they might have heard me speak about it in person. But it's something I definitely talk a lot about in my work. I believe in it because I have experienced it first hand.   So this week I decided to put out a few episodes focusing on the Pain Cycle, the Peace Cycle, and how to practice it.   Today, I talk about the Pain Cycle and how you becoming aware of your own will change your life. It will change your life on both an individual and relational level.   In this episode I explore: Violations of Love and Trust How Violations of Love and Trust create your negative pattern of coping known as the Pain Cycle. What the Pain Cycle is How to identify the feelings in your Pain Cycle How to identify the coping behavior in your Pain Cycle If you want to work through this at home, here is the initial Pain Cycle homework that I give my clients and others to work through. It's a pretty simple sheet to work on, so check it out: Identifying and Practicing Your ‘Pain Cycle’   Resources Mentioned in this EpisodeRestoration Therapy Terry Hargrave Marriage Strong Sharon Hargrave The Hideaway Experience