Human First, Cop Second: Police, Alcohol, and Asking for Help

Retired law enforcement officer Mike Clark joins Brian for a raw conversation about police culture, alcoholism, sobriety, trauma, suicide, and the fear that keeps many officers from asking for help. Mike spent nearly three decades in law enforcement and speaks directly about the identity trap that can come with the job: being trained to handle everyone else’s crisis while feeling unable to admit when the crisis is your own. The conversation moves through alcohol use in police culture, fear of identity loss, shame around AA or treatment, the pressure to appear fine, and the terrifying question many officers carry silently: “What happens to my career if I tell the truth?” Mike also talks about getting sober, later hitting a SECOND bottom while already sober, confronting buried trauma, and learning that asking for help did not make him weak. It made staying alive possible. Check out the website for articles published weekly: www.naplesintegratedrecovery.com Want to work together? I see psychotherapy clients in Florida: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/brian-granneman-naples-fl/1153470 I also offer accountability, coaching, and sober companion services. Send an email: [email protected]