Hypocrites and Paradoxes

I need to pull wrap my attention more around paradox than I have been because I give so much of it to hypocrisy. The less self aware people are the more they become hypocritical. And for some reason I get more and more bummed about people as I hear them saying such stupid contradictory stuff. BUT what if I put my attention on paradox? Can I see less hypocrisy and more paradox with a beneficial outcome on my attitude? Will noticing Paradox make ME less of a hypocrite? I would like to think so. Here I am trying to explain...