"I Broke Up With 2 Girls Because They Texted Too Much! What Should I Tell My Therapist?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who broke up with his last two girlfriends because they wouldn't stop texting him.- A guy wanting to know what women find attractive and how he can change his personality/appearance.- A 33-year-old guy who thinks he's running out of time to find a girl to have kids with (he might be right).- A guy who needs help dealing with a girl who told him "I'll have to check my schedule."- A 39-year-old virgin who wants to know if he should tell girls about that fact before dating.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you do not like texting, set the tone from the beginning of dating. You do not need to text women all day to keep them interested, but you do need to establish that dynamic early. If you start a relationship by texting constantly and then suddenly pull back, it can create suspicion, pressure, and unnecessary conflict.Texting less does not mean ignoring women completely. If a woman sends something worth replying to, answer it, but do not treat every message like an obligation to start a long conversation. Taking a few hours to reply is normal and can reduce the feeling that texting is a part-time job.Use texting mostly to make plans, not to maintain constant connection. Daily texting is not required for dating success. A better approach is to use texts to set up dates, confirm plans, and occasionally send something relevant, while saving most conversations for in-person meetings.What women find attractive starts with looks, but confidence can overcome a lot. A good face, height, and a fit body make dating easier, but they are not the whole game. Confidence, experience, and the ability to approach women can help a man succeed even if he is not naturally extremely attractive.Going to the gym gets you to the minimum acceptable level for many women. Being fit is not some magic advantage; it is often the baseline. If you are fat, too skinny, or physically out of shape, improving your body should be treated as a basic requirement for better dating results.Do not approach women pretending you only want friendship. If you are attracted to a woman, let that intention guide the interaction instead of hiding behind “let’s be friends and see what happens.” Women usually understand when a man is talking to them because he finds them attractive.Dating in your thirties means you should take time pressure seriously. At 33, you are not out of options, but you are also not getting younger. If you want a girlfriend, marriage, or kids someday, you need to be honest about that pressure and start dating with more clarity.If a woman says she has to check her schedule, follow up instead of spiraling. “I’ll check my schedule” does not automatically mean she has low interest. Give her a little time, then send a direct follow-up asking whether she can meet, so you get an answer instead of sitting in uncertainty.Keep dating other women instead of over-prioritizing one who barely sees you. If you only see a woman twice a month or she is hard to schedule, do not make her your only option. Keep meeting new women so one uncertain situation does not control your dating life.If you are a 39-year-old virgin, do not put that information on your dating profile. You do not need to announce your inexperience early or make it the center of your dating identity. Let women assume you are normal, avoid oversharing, and only address the topic if it somehow becomes necessary.