"I Buy Her Flowers Every Time I See Her...Why Doesn't She Love Me!?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy with the phone number of a girl he met at a party but doesn't know if it's okay to text her.- A guy who wants to kick his useless girlfriend out of his mom's house.- A college student feeling underappreciated because he takes his girlfriend to restaurants he can't afford and pays the bill.- A feminine guy who can't get girls out on second dates.- A guy who got broken up with because he's "too nice" and has now wasted his money on a trip.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you meet a girl at a party and have her number from a group chat, send the message. You do not need to overthink whether she gave you the number directly if everyone agreed to be in the same WhatsApp group. Keep the message simple, respectful, and something you would not be embarrassed for other people to see.Whether a message feels creepy depends mostly on whether the girl likes you. If she is interested, she will probably be happy you reached out. If she is not interested, she may call it creepy, but that does not mean you did anything wrong.If you want to get your girlfriend out of your mom’s house, you need to break up with her. A relationship that moves backward from living together to not living together is usually already over. If she refuses to leave, cries, begs, and manipulates you into keeping her there, the problem is bigger than housing.Do not spend your early twenties trapped in a dysfunctional relationship. If you have spent your entire adult life with a lazy, unstable girlfriend who cannot keep a job or take care of herself, leave. You need to find new women instead of dragging out an on-and-off relationship that is clearly not working.If your girlfriend does nothing for you, stop blaming her for a dynamic you created. If you pay for every date, buy flowers constantly, bring food for her family, and never ask for anything back, she may assume you are fine with it. Talk to her directly and stop giving more than you can afford.Ask your girlfriend to do specific things for you instead of silently resenting her. If you want effort, affection, or reciprocity, make a clear request. Ask her to cook for you, plan something, or contribute in a way that shows whether she actually cares.If you never get a second date, the first date probably is not creating enough attraction. Talking about work, family, and safe topics can feel pleasant but still fail to build sexual interest. A date can seem friendly and comfortable while the woman feels nothing romantic.Do not text “I had a great time” right after every first date. Sending a needy check-in message can remove mystery and make you look too eager. Let her wonder a little, and if she messages first, then reply.If your dates feel boring, ask more interesting questions. Instead of only talking about work, family, and surface-level topics, bring up more revealing subjects like past relationships, breakups, and what she is actually like. Better questions create more memorable dates.Do not book trips far in advance with a woman you have only dated for a few months. A new relationship can change quickly, and booking a weekend away four weeks out can leave you wasting money if she ends things. If you want to travel early, plan something close in time and make sure she pays her share.