“I can do hard things.”

In this episode, Jessica Attime, a life-long New Englander, shares her transition from waiting for the "perfect time" to start a family to navigating the unpredictable reality of infertility. From the all-consuming effort to conceive to experiencing a heartbreaking miscarriage, Jessica and her husband were eventually given a diagnosis of unexplained infertility. The conversation explores the emotional weight of moving to a process that suddenly becomes highly medicalized as Jessica describes her foray into IVF and her frustrations over communication gaps she’s experienced, specifically the overwhelming logistics of fertility pharmacies, the confusing "second language" of medical acronyms, and the physical toll of self-administering complex medication protocols. She also provides a candid look at the drop off numbers of her two retrieval cycles, detailing the "rude awakening" of her first cycle, which yielded only one viable embryo from eight blastocysts and the despair that can come when your results don’t match the expected statistics. Despite the lack of clear medical answers, Jessica has navigated various physical and emotional hurdles, including a recent hysteroscopy to remove a polyp, by relying on her powerful personal mantra: "I can do hard things."As her journey continues, Jessica emphasizes the necessity of throwing out rigid "life planners" and finding a personal source of strength. She concludes with a sobering reminder that IVF is not an "easy button" or a guarantee, but a process that requires intense self-advocacy and a supportive community to survive the solitude and unknowns.Trying to grow your family is hard, but you are not alone. Here are some resources we recommend for anyone navigating fertility challenges:🔸 Peer Support GroupsFind community and understanding in one of our 20+ free, virtual groups each month.🔸 WTH? Breaking Down Common Fertility Acronyms This post and accompanying webinar with a reproductive endocrinologist breaks down the jargon and provides a comprehensive guide to the complex landscape of fertility acronyms.🔸 A Beginner’s Guide to IVF This step-by-step guide, written by a reproductive endocrinologist, covers both the IVF process and ways you can do to prepare for a cycle.🔸 Exploring SART This article shares how you can use tools and resources from the Society for Assisted Reproduction to help answer questions and make decisions throughout the IVF process.TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:IVF, unexplained infertility, faith, fertility treatment, PGT testing, geriatric pregnancy, miscarriage, TTC, support, community, patient advocacy, communication, family and friends, support system, AllPaths Family Building, fertility acronyms, beginners guide to IVF, family building, infertility journey, trying to conceive, IVF process, emotional support, fertility treatment, family planning, hormonal health, miscarriage support, reproductive health, fertility resources, pregnancy journey, egg retrieval, IVF success stories, integrative medicine, women's health, stress management during IVF, navigating infertilityCONNECT WITH ALLPATHS FAMILY BUILDING: https://allpathsfb.orgFollow us on social media @allpathsfbWant to share your story or ask a question? Get in touch at [email protected]!