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EPISODE · Oct 17, 2025 · 10 MIN

I Can’t Be the Glue No More: The Weight of One-Sided Love

from Becoming - A space for the woman who’s been everything but seen · host Sarah La’Joy

There’s a difference between being loved and being needed — and this week, I’m talking about what happens when you’re always the glue holding everything together.From friendships that fade once you stop fixing everything, to relationships that start to feel like work — I’ve been there. In this episode, I open up about the birthdays I spent waiting for someone else to make me feel special, the prayer that taught me peace doesn’t always come from people, and what it means to finally stop performing “okay.”If you’ve ever been the strong one, the dependable one, the one who shows up for everyone but yourself — this one’s for you, chy.✨ Listen to “I Can’t Be the Glue No More: The Weight of One-Sided Love.”If it hits home, drop a 🫶🏽 in the comments and tell me what part spoke to you.#BecomingPodcast #BecomingWithSarahLaJoy #SoftLife #HealingOutLoud #RootedInBecoming #BecomingHer #OneSidedLove #SelfLoveJourney

There’s a difference between being loved and being needed — and this week, I’m talking about what happens when you’re always the glue holding everything together.From friendships that fade once you stop fixing everything, to relationships that start to feel like work — I’ve been there. In this episode, I open up about the birthdays I spent waiting for someone else to make me feel special, the prayer that taught me peace doesn’t always come from people, and what it means to finally stop performing “okay.”If you’ve ever been the strong one, the dependable one, the one who shows up for everyone but yourself — this one’s for you, chy.✨ Listen to “I Can’t Be the Glue No More: The Weight of One-Sided Love.”If it hits home, drop a 🫶🏽 in the comments and tell me what part spoke to you.#BecomingPodcast #BecomingWithSarahLaJoy #SoftLife #HealingOutLoud #RootedInBecoming #BecomingHer #OneSidedLove #SelfLoveJourney

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