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EPISODE · Mar 18, 2026 · 2H 10M

"I Definitely Want to Be One of the Girls"

from PAFO - Pond Around and Find Out · host Chris Pondoff, Zoë Mendenall, Kurt Garner

Kurt Garner is back, and this one covers a little bit of everything... dating, flirting, mixed signals, ghosting, rejection, body language, chemistry, and all the weird little ways people try to figure out whether somebody is actually into them or if they just talked themselves into it. Chris, Kurt, and Zoë get into first dates, awkward moments, physical touch, humor, vulnerability, and the difference between being nice and actually being flirty. It’s funny, honest, and loose, but there’s real stuff underneath it too, especially when they get into connection, confidence, and how annoying it is when people leave the loop open.Then it goes wider in that very PAFO way... friendship vs. romance, therapy, feet, spa talk, dream jobs, creating opportunities, childhood heroes, memorable encounters, Alaska stories, youth sports, coaching, and March Madness. It feels like friends hanging out, but there’s still a lot in here about taking chances, being real, and trying to make sense of people, sports, and life without pretending to have it all figured out.Sponsored by McKelvey Insurance Group and Light Source, LLC Psychotherapy.McKelvey Insurance Grouphttps://www.mckelveyins.com/Light Source, LLC Psychotherapyhttps://findyourlightsource.com/00:00 Introduction and Sponsorships06:01 Teaching Challenges and Personal Anecdotes13:53 Emotional Responses and Astrology18:03 Sexual Tension and Dating Insights22:28 Flirting Signals and Body Language25:43 Navigating Physical Touch and Boundaries27:41 The Role of Humor in Attraction29:21 Friendship vs. Romance: The Dating Dilemma31:30 Vulnerability in Dating and Rejection32:18 The Importance of Connection and Community36:05 Self-Care and Personal Growth40:09 Exploring the Foot Fetish Phenomenon45:16 Creating Opportunities and Following Dreams52:18 Navigating Romantic Encounters54:46 The Anxiety of Ghosting56:39 Dental Dilemmas and Personal Stories01:00:14 Reflections on Childhood Heroes01:06:30 The Impact of Professional Athletes01:11:32 Memorable Encounters with Icons01:17:11 Life Lessons from Alaska01:21:46 Summer in Alaska: A Unique Experience01:22:52 The Midnight Sun and Its Effects01:23:55 Historical Context: Alaska's Acquisition01:24:30 Cultural Insights: Eskimo Kisses and Relationships01:25:51 The Two-Headed Woman: A Curious Encounter01:26:52 Exploring Pleasure and Identity01:29:54 The Nature of Threesomes and Consent01:35:10 Curiosity About Life and Death01:36:40 Pet Peeves and Sports Talk01:38:05 March Madness and College Basketball Dynamics01:45:17 Coaching Philosophy in Youth Sports01:47:49 The Importance of Ice Time for Kids01:49:36 Mental Aspects of Sports Performance01:51:30 The Shift from Playing to Watching Sports01:56:20 March Madness and Its Cultural Impact02:02:08 Humor and Controversy in Sports Discussions

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