"I Did Her Laundry and Cleaned Her Room...How Could She Break Up With Me!?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who feels it's important that girls reach to pay the bill on the first date.- A guy who can't believe girls still don't like him after he took dancing classes and speech lessons.- A guy who thought doing his girlfriend's chores would build a healthy relationship.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you always pay on dates, women can start treating you like a wallet. Paying for everything from the beginning can train a woman to expect your money instead of appreciating it. If you do not want that dynamic, establish early that she should contribute.Split the bill on the first date to set the right relationship dynamic. The first date is where you teach a woman what to expect from you. If you pay automatically, you may create entitlement; if you ask her to split, you set a healthier standard from the beginning.Do not join hobbies or classes just to meet women. Dancing classes, speech lessons, social clubs, and hobby groups are not magic dating solutions. If you genuinely want to do them, fine, but do not pretend they are the best way to get girls.Focusing on yourself will not make women fall into your lap. Self-improvement is useful for life, money, health, and confidence, but it does not replace action. If you want women, you need to go talk to them instead of waiting for someone nice to appear.Dating apps can stay in the background, but real-life approaching should be the main strategy. Apps may occasionally produce dates, but they should not be your only pipeline. Walk around, go to malls, talk to cute women, and create opportunities directly.You do not need a socially approved setting to approach a woman. If you see a woman you find attractive in public, you can talk to her. You do not need a class, singles event, or blind date setup to make the interaction acceptable.Most dating advice about joining social events wastes men’s time. Many men spend years trying the standard advice and still get nowhere. Skip the overcomplicated route and focus on the direct one: approach women you actually want.Doing your girlfriend’s laundry and cleaning her room does not build attraction. Acting like her servant will not make her love or respect you more. If anything, it weakens the relationship dynamic and makes you look less like the man in the relationship.Do not worship your girlfriend and then complain that she expects worship. If you drive hours, buy everything, clean for her, massage her, reassure her constantly, and cut off friends for her, you are creating the exact entitlement you resent. Stop overgiving and start having self-respect.If your girlfriend vents about problems only a therapist could handle, do not make that your role. Being supportive is one thing, but becoming her emotional dumping ground while also doing everything for her is a bad relationship dynamic. Do not date mental chaos and then wonder why the relationship feels impossible.