I felt completely lost with no goals and no direction, here's how I found my way back

SUBSCRIBE for weekly episodes every Tuesday!! Welcome & welcome back!!In today's episode, we're talking about what to do when you feel lost, directionless, and unsure of what you want from life.A lot of advice assumes you already have a goal and just need motivation—but what if you don't even know where to begin?I'm sharing what helped me move from feeling stuck, isolated, and uninspired to feeling more aligned, confident, and purposeful. We discuss the importance of structure, getting outside your comfort zone, taking action before you feel ready, creating a vision for your ideal self, and why waiting for clarity often keeps us stuck.Plus, I'm answering your questions on loneliness during a level-up era, healing after a breakup, getting started in the gym, self-care when you're overwhelmed, and sharing some of my current book recommendations.♡ Apply for 1:1 Coaching:https://forms.gle/s3zprpWj8VE5Bkvm8 ♡ Follow me:Instagram: instagram.com/stellaraeTikTok: tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!10% off PROZIS with code stellarae10 !! http://prozis.com/1LMJGDove clinical care deodorant! https://lvnta.com/lv_1SaEokXx3ya3xlutqADove serum oil body wash!! https://lvnta.com/lv_83ptsalBXfgItvrPFfGet $1000 off the mindbodygreen health coach certification program with code STELLACOACHING !! their new cohort starts June 16, you must apply/sign up by June 12!! https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263 Use my code HF-0449 for up to 10 free meals plus free breakfast for life from HelloFresh!! https://www.filify.co/SHBn0Get $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraejoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id125561818200:00 Intro + what if you don't know what you want in life?02:13 How I felt lost after the pandemic04:24 Structure, routine & socializing changed everything06:46 Why staying home too much keeps you stuck08:00 Prozis sponsor08:55 Do you need to add more to your life—or remove things?10:07 Looking back at childhood passions for clues12:10 Why I hate the "5-year plan" question13:20 Creating a vision for your ideal self15:50 Action creates clarity17:12 Becoming the character you want to be18:55 The power of talking to strangers20:34 The Domino Park bathroom story 💀22:58 Stop waiting for life to happen25:09 Action brings purpose26:07 MindBodyGreen Health Coach Certification sponsor27:13 Why leveling up starts with what you can control28:20 Q&A: self-care when you're feeling lost29:28 Loneliness, jealousy & lack of support from others31:53 How to lock back in after a breakup34:42 Summer PSA: deodorant matters35:50 Getting started at the gym when you're intimidated37:08 Current reads & book recommendations44:00 Final thoughts #StellaRaePodcast