I "GET TO" Co-Parent! Guide To Being Better In Divorce! - Darlene Taylor

EPISODE 3: I "GET TO" Co-Parent! Guide To Being Better! - Darlene TaylorOur Guest for Today's Episode:Darlene Taylor Darlene Taylor, MSW, CPC, is a former licensed social worker and certified coach with over 15 years of experience helping families navigate co-parenting after divorce. Specializing in creating positive, supportive environments for children, Darlene’s book, It's Not About Us: A Co-Parenting Survival Guide for Taking the High Road, combines personal and professional insights to provide practical strategies for effective co-parenting. Outside of her work, Darlene is an obstacle course race enthusiast, enjoys staying active, and loves spending time with her daughter in Los Angeles. As a dedicated advocate for single-parent families, she works to break stigma and promote resilience, love, and understanding in evolving family dynamics. Darlene's Website Check her book and journal below:Divorce Support ResourcesBarnes and Noble linkAmazon link for journalAmazon link for book : It's Not About UsStory of her challenges with co-parenting with her college coach exStories of her relationship with her daughter's stepmomHaving Bonus Kids and Having a Bonus Mom for her DaughterParenting Plans Vs. Parenting TimeCreating flexibility in scheduling, learning to support one anothercollaboration vs. combativeSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Darlene Taylor, a former licensed social worker and certified coach, about her journey to achieving an amicable divorce. They discuss the importance of emotional healing, flexibility in parenting plans, and the role of communication in co-parenting. Darlene shares her insights on separating the partner from the parent, the benefits of having bonus parents, and the significance of maintaining a positive relationship for the sake of the children. The conversation concludes with practical tips for navigating divorce and co-parenting successfully.TakeawaysAmicable divorces are possible with effort and intention.Emotional healing is crucial before entering legal negotiations.Flexibility in parenting plans is essential for co-parenting success.Communication is key to maintaining a positive co-parenting relationship.Separating the partner from the parent helps in focusing on the child's needs.Bonus parents can provide additional love and support for children.It's important to prioritize the child's well-being over personal grievances.Creating a renewable marriage contract could foster intentional relationships.Being vulnerable can lead to more grace in communication.The gift of an amicable relationship benefits the children immensely.Sound Bites"Divorce doesn't have to be a battleground.""I wanted to have an amicable relationship.""You have to acknowledge what's going on.""One of you has to get on the high road first.""You can have a positive relationship or be vengeful.""There is never too much love that's given to children.""Flexibility is key in co-parenting."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Amicable Divorce02:59 Darlene's Journey to an Amicable Divorce06:02 Navigating the Tough Stuff08:54 Creating a Flexible Parenting Plan12:10 The Importance of Communication14:53 Separating Partner from Parent18:03 The Role of Bonus Parents21:14 The Gift of an Amicable Relationship24:10 Renewable Marriage Contracts26:56 Key Takeaways and ConclusionKeywordsco-parenting, amicable divorce, parenting plan, emotional divorce, bonus relationships, divorce support, family dynamics, communication, healing, divorce strategiesThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. 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