EPISODE · Mar 14, 2019 · 50 MIN
I got pregnant after 15 years on testosterone – Trystan
from Good Girls Talk About Sex
Trystan Reese is a transgender white man in a monogamous gay marriage who is 35 years old. In 2017, Trystan gave birth to a baby conceived with his husband Biff. Their story has been shared in People Magazine, CNN, Cosmo and more. You can find them online at BiffAndI.com. While Trystan has been living as a man for the past 15 years, he was raised and socialized as a female for his first 18 years. That gives him an intimate understanding of both sides of the gender spectrum – including insight into which aspects are biological or hormonal and which are societal. The conversations gay men have BEFORE they start dating that other couples don't (but should!) have An important thing we can learn from Trystan's strategy of revealing that he's trans Why our relationship to our body is more important than the shape of our body when we're starting a new relationship Should we be telling little girls that they're beautiful? How Trystan's stay-at-home-dad partner manages his energy so he has enough left over for sex In this episode, we mentioned the following resources: Podcast - Dan Savage's SavageLove podcast Book - Cory Silverberg's book "What Makes A Baby" Book - Cory Silverberg's book "Sex Is A Funny Word" Trystan's website: www.BiffandI.com Update: Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak
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