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EPISODE · Jul 31, 2025 · 17 MIN

I Had an Affair: How It Feels to Tell the World You Were the Other Woman

from The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over.

I knew starting The Scarlet Edit by telling the story of my five-year affair as the other woman would turn heads. I didn't expect the sense of freedom that came with finally saying it out loud.In this episode, I'm reflecting on what happened after I shared the truth about my affair — why I chose to lead with it, what the aftermath felt like, and the questions that have come in since. This is the raw, behind-the-scenes side of going public with a story most people would have buried forever.I talk about:Why I launched a podcast about infidelity by sharing my own affair story firstWhat it actually felt like to press publish on my biggest secret — the relief, the fear, and the shame that tried to creep back inWhether I ever believed he would leave his marriage for meHow it feels knowing he might be listening nowThe emotional weight of being the other woman in public after being the other woman in secret for five yearsWhy I built the Patreon community and what it's meant to connect with women who have lived through the same thingIf you've ever carried a secret relationship, wondered what it would feel like to finally own your story without shame, or needed to hear that being the other woman doesn't define your worth — this one is for you.New episodes every Thursday.💌 Business inquiries: [email protected]

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