I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa

Lisa is a 40-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, currently in a relationship that is heterosexual, monogamous, and long-distance. She has also long been attracted to women and is considering the likelihood that she is bisexual. Major themes in this episode include body image and eating disorders, sex outside marriage, long distance relationships, and exploring kink. Lisa's discovery of sexual pleasure in the shower Growing up as a gymnast, giving her a heightened sense of body awareness as a kid Developing an eating disorder Lisa's first experience of dating and sexual exploration "Losing" her virginity Having a partner stop penetration when asked Having bad sex in college Getting married right out of college and meeting her sexual needs outside the marriage Having flings during work travel Lisa's ability to compartmentalize sex from a relationship Communicating relationship needs/boundaries/parameters over the course of a relationship Lisa's second marriage and its unhealthy aspects Opening up to kink and anal sex Exploring new fantasies with her current partner The day Lisa's partner thanked Leah on Instagram for opening new vistas in their relationship! How they keep sex alive in a long distance relationship How Lisa talks to her kids about sex and consent The ramifications of leaving a trail of sexy pics in today's digital world Audio extras for this episode are: Lisa and I discuss the confusion we've both encountered around bisexuality Lisa talks about the prevalence of GHB, a date rape drug, when she was in college The extended Q&A   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak