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EPISODE · Apr 2, 2026 · 17 MIN

I Had to Break Myself Down First

from Don’t Tell Daddy · host Chelsea Mendes, Elisabeth Withers

This week, we’re getting real about evolution, not the pretty kind, the painful kind. In “I Had to Break Myself Down First,” we talk about: The story and energy behind Mom’s new single and what this era represents Reinventing yourself publicly and unapologetically What it actually looks like to evolve as a woman in music and media Releasing the songs sitting in your notes app (yes, we went there 👀) How AI is starting to play a role in our creative process and the future of the podcast Why breaking yourself down is sometimes the only way to build something better This episode is about growth, risk, and stepping into the next version of yourself before you feel “ready.” Because sometimes… you don’t glow up. You break down first. Thanks for listening to the Don’t Tell Daddy Podcast where the mics stay on, the jokes stay wild, and the tea is always hot. Join the ewmdeskinc.com family1️⃣ Head to YouTube2️⃣ Search EWMDesk Inc3️⃣ Tap SUBSCRIBE EWMDesk Incorporated is a dynamic mother–daughter, nonprofit creative house led by Tony-nominated Broadway actress, recording artist, Smithsonian-honored educator @iamelisabethwithers and her 20 y/o rising media strategist @missbeforeyougetsigned Chelsea is the founder of Before You Get Signed and a proud Spelman College graduate (Political Science). She brings a next-generation voice in entertainment law, artist development, and indie media, currently preparing for law school while building innovative platforms for emerging talent. Connecting, it's what we do at the desk. ⚠️ Everything said on this podcast is for entertainment, storytelling, and vibes only. Don’t go telling daddy… he wouldn’t get it anyway.

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