I haven't told my husband my fetishes – Vin

Vin goes from the prototypical good girl to a (nearly) fearless adventurer. She married young, and enjoys a positive and openly communicative sexual relationship with her husband. Vin opens up about how their initial struggle to achieve penis-in-vagina sex led her to explore erotica, kink, anal play, toys, plugs, and taboo porn, all in a curvy body. Vin is a 22-year-old cisgender female who describes herself as Indigenous, monogamous, bisexual, and married.  She grew up in a Christian home and describes her body as "chunky."  Vin shares her first memory of sexual pleasure, before the age of 7. Family movie night had the occasional "close your eyes!" scene, and she got curious with her pillow. Growing up, her parents demonstrated healthy affection towards each other, but there was no sex talk and her older sisters were mum on the subject. The family all find out late that the eldest sister is gay; it doesn't go over well with her religious parents. Vin has no boyfriend before her husband. Partly because she's the quintessential good girl, and partly because no one interests her. Vin struggled with her body image growing up; her parents consciously kept them from being overweight "for health reasons." Health talk can be code for fat phobia, and she's still to this day untangling her personal physical truth from this cultural fear. Vin talks about meeting her husband. After they kiss, things get moving and Vin has a fully clothed orgasm from breast play that she still remembers as a stand-out moment. Vin shares what her total lack of experience going into the marriage looked like. She'd never even used a tampon and couldn't fit her husband. He gallantly suggests a small dildo, and they take their time learning her body together. They explore anal play to assist with her vaginal difficulties. It helps! Vin opens up about the things she never knew existed and wants to try. The Yes/No/Maybe checklist was an inspiration for her, and it opens up a lot of conversation with her husband (though she wants to explore more than he does). Leah shares resources for body image and movement help for curvy or larger bodies. Vin wants to get comfortable with physical positions other than being on her back. They also discuss Literotica and how it can be used for learning and exploration as well as pleasure. Vin talks about fantasizing about women and bisexual desires, and they discuss how getting turned on by things that are taboo doesn't mean you want to do it in real life. Resources: Curvy Girl Sex - https://www.amazon.com/Curvy-Girl-Sex-Elle-Chase-ebook/dp/B01N25F4V0   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak