"I Invited a Girl to My Place...I'm Annoyed That She Had Sex With Me!"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A "good guy" who doesn't get laid, but at least people don't think he's a "f boy."- A possibly homosexual guy (not that there's anything wrong with that) who cut things off with an obsessive girl.- A guy who is confused about a girl's repeated cancelling and rescheduling.- A guy who lost weight and is surprised that women aren't swarming him.- A clueless guy who wrecked the vibe on his date because he takes advice from the internet.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:Being a good guy does not automatically make women attracted to you. Being sweet, genuine, wholesome, moral, and emotionally healthy are good qualities, but they are not enough by themselves to create dating success. Attraction requires more than being nice and self-improved.Self-development does not replace putting real effort into dating. Taking years off to work on yourself can improve your life, but it does not guarantee women will appear. If you want dating results, you need to actively date, ask women out, and create opportunities instead of waiting for self-improvement to pay off.If dates keep stalling after the first or second date, try bringing women home earlier. If you are getting dates but nothing is progressing, the problem may be that you are not escalating enough. Try to bring her home on the first date and see whether a more direct physical approach changes your results.Do not turn down sex with a woman you brought home unless you truly do not want her. If a hot woman is at your place and wants to have sex, refusing because you are unsure whether you like her can be self-sabotage. If you do not want sex, do not bring her home in the first place.A woman asking about kids or marriage early is not automatically a red flag. Some women know what they want and do not want to waste time with a man who wants something different. Asking early can be practical, especially if she is dating with serious intentions.If a woman gets obsessive too quickly, slow her down instead of instantly bailing. Talking about family, holidays, or future plans after one or two dates can feel intense, but it does not always mean you need to end it. If you like her, keep control of the pace and tell her to slow down.If she cancels but offers specific alternative dates, she is probably still interested. A woman who reschedules with a clear new day is showing more interest than one who simply cancels. Confirm the new date the day before and do not panic just because there is silence in between.Losing weight does not automatically make women give you attention. Getting fit can improve your health, confidence, and appearance, but it usually only brings you up to a basic acceptable level. You still need personality, confidence, and action to turn self-improvement into dating results.Going to the gym is the dating baseline, not a magic advantage. Being in shape helps, but many men work out now, so it does not make you special on its own. Treat fitness like brushing your teeth: necessary, valuable, and expected, but not enough to create attraction by itself.Do not ask for permission to kiss a woman on a date. Asking can kill the moment and make you look unsure. If the vibe is right, go for the kiss and let her stop you if she does not want it.