I Just Want This Done - Raiford Palmer, J.D. || Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast 019 || David M. Webb

The book ‘ I Just Want This Done’ by Raiford Palmer, J.D. helps smart, successful people get divorced without losing their kids, money and minds.  I was stoked to get him on the podcast and talk about his guide, his professional and personal take on divorce - especially from a man’s over 40 point of view.  Having gone through a divorce himself, Raiford’s experience is backed by him walking the walk and talking the talk.  For men over 40 struggling with their before, during and/or post-divorce - this is one of those podcasts you can’t go without listening to! Besides, it's funny until it happens to you - Dave Chappelle. That reference make the podcast rock even more!Takeaways:-divorce law has been using a meat ax instead of a scalpel-you can’t fight the law of physics-in a divorce, everyone is losing to some degree-look before you leap-kids always find out who the good guy is-friends and family are you biggest cheerleaders-get a consultation early with an attorney-communicate effectively with your co-parent by following guidelines like being brief, informative, fair, and friendly (BIFF)-signal to noise ratio, how much is static?-divorce three times with no prenup-get in a positive headspace and take time to heal-take this opportunity to make yourself the best person you can be-making memories with your kids-take the long view and consider the cost-benefit analysis in all aspects of divorce, including financial, emotional, and career impact-don’t shut down during your divorce-keep on living-seek professional help, such as a counselor or psychologist, to manage the emotional challenges of divorceAll Things Raiford Palmer!Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.