I Kept Saving Everyone Else... Then the Bill Came Due
from Toxic Girls Zone Hosted by ABSX Network
In this episode I'm telling you what happened when I finally looked at why I spent a decade choosing men who needed rescuing instead of love that could actually hold me. You've been the capable one, the one who shows up, the one who gives so much, and you're still somehow ending up exhausted and a little invisible. But if it feels like generosity, it might not be. It might be a strategy you built to avoid ever being the one who needs. We get into what projection actually looks like in a real relationship, why being needed can feel more like safety than being loved, and what changes when you finally say the thing you've been postponing. You'll walk away knowing the difference between choosing someone and choosing a project, and what it actually costs to keep outsourcing the need you're afraid to own. When you imagine being truly held, not fixed, just held, what is it you'd finally be allowed to stop doing? To listen to this podcast ad-free and access premium episodes, try our subscription with a 14-day free trial at obomedia.com. © 2026 OBOMEDIA. All rights reserved. This episode and its content (audio, text, and related materials) are the exclusive property of OBOMEDIA and are protected by applicable copyright laws. Reproduction, distribution, editing, or commercial use, in whole or in part, without prior written permission from OBOMEDIA is prohibited. For permissions, licensing, and business inquiries: [email protected]. This episode includes AI-generated content.
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