I Know You Are But What Am I?

This episode is a reminder that who we are can’t be defined by someone else’s misery, projections, or curated perfection. I’m unpacking how consumption—of media, opinions, expectations—can quietly convince us to shrink, contort, or forget our truth. But becoming who we’re meant to be requires emotional intelligence, daily kindness, and radical self-love.I share what it looks like to choose yourself with intention, to make progress without chasing perfection, and to love yourself out loud—even when the world tries to hand you a script that doesn’t fit. If you’ve ever felt like you were becoming someone else’s version of you, this episode is your invitation to return home.Send us Fan MailThis Is Where I Landed with ShaylaI’m in my bold, soft, God‑led becoming era — and I hope this episode reminded you that you’re allowed to take up space too. Step into your power, step into your softness, and choose the version of you that feels aligned, peaceful, and undeniable.I want to hear from you, email me [email protected]’s connect on IG, TikTok and FB: @landedpodRemember, you are that guy, you are that girl, you are whomever you choose to be. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.