"I Need to Pay a Girl to Cuddle Me...Will My Future Girlfriend Find Out I'm a Loser?"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:-A guy wondering if it's okay to dump a girl if she won't meet up with him.-A desperate, nearly-hopeless guy who wants to pay for a girl to cuddle him instead of finding one that actually likes him.-A guy who was paying for prostitution but was too dumb to realize it.-A 20-year-old dude who doesn't wanna get roped into marriage.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If a woman is too busy to see you, do not send a dramatic breakup message. If she has only hung out once in six weeks and barely texts, she has already shown where you stand. You do not need to announce that it is not working; just stop investing and let it fade.Do not put your dating life on hold for one unavailable woman. If she is busy, distant, or only half-interested, keep meeting other women. You can keep her lightly on your radar, but you should not wait around hoping her schedule or interest suddenly changes.A woman who really likes you will usually make time to see you. School, work, and life can be busy, but one meetup in six weeks is not a good sign. If she wanted to prioritize you, she would probably find a way.Using a cuddling service is a major dating red flag. Wanting affection is normal, but paying a woman to cuddle you is not the answer. Do not go down the path of paying for women’s time when what you really need is a better dating life.Do not pay women for emotional comfort or physical affection. Hugging, cuddling, sex, and companionship should come from real dating, not a paid service. Have enough self-respect to go meet women instead of buying fake intimacy.If a woman asks for money early in dating, you are creating the wrong relationship dynamic. Giving money to show you care teaches her that your role is financial support. If the relationship starts with you paying for skincare, merch, trips, dates, and requests, do not be surprised when she expects more.A woman who requires financial support while dating is treating the relationship like a transaction. If she says it is her standard for men to financially support her, that is not normal dating. That is a girlfriend-experience arrangement, and you should not confuse it with genuine interest.Do not lead with money if you want a woman to like you for you. Paying for everything and handing out cash can attract women who care more about what you provide than who you are. Keep early dates cheap, split costs, and avoid setting the expectation that access to you comes with payments.If you do not see yourself marrying your girlfriend, stop wasting her time. If she wants marriage and kids and you already know you do not want that future with her, you need to be honest. Staying because you care about her only delays the pain and makes the eventual breakup worse.At 20 years old, you should not force yourself into marriage plans you do not want. If you feel too young or cannot picture proposing, listen to that instinct. End it now or clearly tell her where you stand so she can decide whether she wants to keep dating you.