I Ordered a Martini, He Ordered Water: First-Date Red Flags Exposed

What happens when you finally say yes to a “ lunch date” … and it turns into a master class and what not to do?In this episode of The VAGINAZ Podcast, Debbie Diaz breaks down a real life mini meeting that checked every red flag box imaginable - late arrival, awkward PDA, zero conversation prep, sobriety over sharing, ex family entanglements, and a level of delusion that deserves its own certification exam.Joined by digital cohosts Grok and Just Ask Brad, Debbie unpacked dating etiquette, polite, shutdowns, and why standards aren’t the problem - poor social calibration is.This isn’t about bashing men .It’s about awareness, boundaries, and why first impression still matter .If you’re navigating the dating scene, re-entering after a focus era, I just need a laugh while nodding aggressively in agreement - this one’s for you.Press play, sip something strong, and take notes .