I Thought My Picker Was Broken (But It Was My Programming)

In this powerful first episode of Love by Design, Joan Nwosu shares her raw and real origin story — from broken engagements and cross-continental heartbreaks to finally uncovering the truth behind her dating patterns.If you’ve ever thought your “picker” was broken, this episode will show you that it was never about your worth — it was your programming.Joan introduces her signature REAL Attraction Pyramid and unpacks why most traditional dating advice doesn’t work for high-achieving women. This is where dating shifts from chasing chemistry to choosing alignment.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:✨ Why your past relationships aren’t proof that you’re unlovable✨ How childhood and societal programming shape your love life✨ The REAL Attraction Pyramid — a framework for aligned love✨ Why high-achieving women need a new dating paradigm✨ The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and alignmentMENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Joan’s signature framework: The REAL Attraction Pyramid. Download the Playbook hereWhat it really means to date by designTeaser for Episode 2: The Myth of Chemistry — And What Aligned Love Actually Feels LikeCONNECT WITH JOAN:📸 Instagram: @joan_nwosu💼 LinkedIn: Joan Nwosu💌 Work with Joan: joannwosu.com🎧 Subscribe and leave a review — your support helps this message reach more powerful women ready to love on purpose.