I told my husband my secret after a decade - Lois

Lois carried shame into her adulthood due to childhood sexual abuse. As an adult, she found healing and had wonderful sex with her current husband, which has dwindled as they've gotten older.  She talks about her how the abuse affected her relationship with her body and sex, participating in "free love" during the 60s, and her relationship with sex as she has gotten older. Lois is a 70-year-old, cis-gender female who describes herself as mostly white, straight, married for 38 years, monogamous, and post-menopausal.  She has three grown children. Lois talks about being abused as a child Lois' mother witnessed the abuse and didn't stop it Lois' experience of sexual shame in the aftermath of the abuse Her early consensual sexual experiences, and feelings of extreme guilt. The pleasure response that can happen even during abuse Coming of age sexually in the mid-1960s and her first consensual sexual relationship. The Summer of Love Meeting her first husband at age 24 Making sure she received pleasure during sex How the abuse affected her feelings about her body, and hating her body as a sexual vessel Experiencing love at first sight with her second husband Telling her husband about her abuse background after a triggering event at work Having a great sex life in her 40s Going through early menopause after a hysterectomy and the dwindling of their sex life Audio extras for this episode are: How her own experience of childhood sexual abuse affected Lois' communication with her children about sex. Extended Q&A   Update:  Since this episode was released, the podcast has concluded. Here's how you can find me now: Book a FREE no-pressure intro consultation Keep up to date and get your FREE Three-Minute Game All my classes and downloads are at my store Any audio extras for this episode on the Good Girls Talk About Sex website Here's everything I'm up to today I no longer use Patreon — you can now support my work on Substack   EPISODE CREDITS: Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak