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EPISODE · Jun 24, 2026 · 1H 28M

I Used To Be A Pick-Me Ft. Via

from Good Moms Bad Choices · host The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.   In this episode, you’ll hear: How Via went from “pick-me” dating advice to empowering women online The connection between trauma, sex work, and calling dissociation “empowerment” Why leaving a mentally abusive relationship unlocked her feminine rage How acupuncture + somatic therapy changed everything! The truth about performative sex, porn, and what she actually wants now Why safe female friendships can feel more protective than a man Reparenting yourself while parenting your child Via in the Trigger hot seat plus a very on-brand “bad choice” at the spa   Via opens up about growing up without much guidance, entering sex work at 20, and how her journey helped her walk away from toxic love, reparent herself, and choose herself for the first time. The ladies get into safety, patriarchy, friendship, pussy power, and why sometimes your whole life changes after one needle and one breakup. Tune in to hear how this week’s tarot card pull (hello, Nine of Pentacles) affirms the entire conversation!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.   In this episode, you’ll hear: How...

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