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EPISODE · May 24, 2026 · 20 MIN

A Good Man Is Built By Daily Choices

from Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart · host Lachlan Stuart

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Ask 10 men what a good man actually is, and you'll get 10 different answers. Ask most of them to live it out, and they go silent. We've spent more than a decade arguing about what masculinity is, picking it apart, telling men what they shouldn't be. And somewhere in the noise, we forgot to give men something to aim at.In this episode, I walk you through the three-part framework I use with every man I coach: Define Him. Find the Gap. Vote Him Into Existence. This isn't about telling you who to be. It's about helping you figure that out for yourself — and then start closing the gap between who you are now and the man you actually respect.You'll learn:- Why most men are chasing better with no real target, and how to fix that- The difference between values and standards, and why both matter- How to audit your calendar to see what you actually value (not what you think you do)- The four pillars: Strong Body, Calm Mind, Clear Purpose, Confident Life- The four gaps that keep men stuck: skills, experiences, environments, and identity beliefs- What timeline therapy is, and why it was completely transformative for me- The three voting moments every man faces daily, and how to win them- Why you don't become a good man at some future point. You become him in the next decision.Free Life Performance Scorecard (takes less than 4 minutes) → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HEREFollow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

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Message me your 'Takeaways'. Ask 10 men what a good man actually is, and you'll get 10 different answers. Ask most of them to live it out, and they go silent. We've spent more than a decade arguing about what masculinity is, picking it apart, telling men what they shouldn't be. And somewhere in the noise, we forgot to give men something to aim at. In this episode, I walk you through the three-part framework I use with every man I coach: Define Him. Find the Gap. Vote Him Into Existence....

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