#Idea04 Freedom is Being Okay if Other People Dislike You #TheCourageToBeDisliked

Recently I read a book name called The Courage To Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. This is the fourth idea of the book. "What if they don't like me?" This is a fear that is common to almost every human being. We're wired to thrive in communities - the fear of disapproval makes people freeze inside. The reality, though, is that someone will dislike us. Being okay with people not liking us is freedom. We wouldn't go and purposefully work to make people not like us. But we shouldn't let go of our authenticity and make people like us. We should be ourselves - and be okay whether people like us or not.