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EPISODE · May 5, 2026 · 35 MIN

IF I WERE A BOY: Male Privilege, Dating Games & Double Standards

from Sispective · host Sispective LLC, Iron Orchid Media, Lil Jon

If the Sozahdah sisters were men for a day, would they abuse the privilege or break the cycle? This episode gets real about gender roles, dating double standards, financial pressure, safety, and emotional labor, with candid stories, cultural context, and unfiltered Wolf Pack energy.   CREDITS: Executive Producers: Lil Jon, Erika Byrant, and Aisha Corpas Wynn Host & Producers: Jamila Sozahdah, Shakur Sozahdah, Siddiqa Sozahdah, and Nooreya Sozahdah Production Co: Sispective LLC and Iron Orchid Media AI Consultants: The AI Chicks   CHAPTERS:  00:00:00 — If I Woke Up a Man: Power, Privilege & Perspective Curiosity, frustration, and why so many women imagine life on the other side. 05:40 — Dating Economics: Coffee Dates, Dinner Dates & Broke Audacity Who pays, who plans, power dynamics, and why money matters in modern dating. 13:45 — The Double Standard Nobody Wants to Admit What men get away with, safety, freedom, and the unspoken rules women live by. 21:50 — Provider Pressure, Alpha Energy & Emotional Labor Masculinity, money, leadership, and redefining what real strength looks like. 28:40 — Why Wanting to Be a Boy Was Never About Ego Afghan culture, history, gender restriction, and freedom tied to being male. 35:05 — What Women Are Actually Asking For Communication, consistency, vulnerability, and emotional availability.   FOLLOW US ON ALL SOCIALS @ SISPECTIVE #welcometothewolfpackchat

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