EPISODE · Feb 23, 2024 · 16 MIN
If I'm Not Judgmental..how do I know i'm right?
Fear of failure holding you back? Can't stop obsessing over what you should've done better? I'm telling you exactly how to stop being judgmental, drop the fear of failure and always know if you're doing a good job with a way that's more useful, feels better + helps you progress wayyyy faster Listen to liberate yo self from the cycle of fear and self-consciousness. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient and want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, Perfectionism Optimized 1-1 coaching is for you! Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimizedListen to the full episode to learn:How being judgmental is the silent killer of your relationships (esp. with people you love the most)Where sneaky judgment is lurking in your own lifeWhy you’re stuck + how mistakes are the solutionEXACTLY how to legit enjoy failureEp. 208 Timestamps00:00-How Judgment Holds Perfectionists Back02:20-Fear of Failure + Its Dangerous Consequences03:51-Why Am I So Hard On Myself05:26-Being Judgmental is a Protection Mechanism06:33-What Lies Beneath Your Judgment07:30-From Judging Yourself to Joyful Winning09:27-Exactly how to drop judgmental12:22-Trading Contempt for Curiosity + Experimentation14:42-How To 13x Building Your Resilience15:53-Rewiring Your Perfectionistic Patterns From The Inside OutTruth + Accuracy In This Episode Is Brought To You By:Daniilidou, A. (2023). Understanding the relationship between the multidimensional perfectionism and self-compassion in adults: The effect of age. Europe’s Journal of Psychology, 19(4), 371–386. https://doi.org/10.5964/ejop.11981Hitchcock, P. F., Britton, W. B., Mehta, K. P., & Frank, M. J. (2022). Self-judgment dissected: A computational modeling analysis of self-referential processing and its relationship to trait mindfulness facets and depression symptoms. Cognitive, Affective, & Behavioral Neuroscience, 23(1), 171–189. https://doi.org/10.3758/s13415-022-01033-9Ong, C. W., Lee, E. B., Petersen, J. M., Levin, M. E., & Twohig, M. P. (2021). Is perfectionism always unhealthy? Examining the moderating effects of psychological flexibility and self‐compassion. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 77(11), 2576–2591. https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.23187 Perfectionism Rewired is committed to truth and accuracy through a perfectionist affirming lens, offering cutting-edge research on perfectionism, interoception + neuroscience, for the practical perfectionist who wants to enjoy the life they've worked so hard to create.
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Fear of failure holding you back? Can't stop obsessing over what you should've done better? I'm telling you exactly how to stop being judgmental, drop the fear of failure and always know if you're doing a good job with a way that's more useful, feels better + helps you progress wayyyy faster. Listen to liberate yo self from the cycle of fear and self-consciousness. If you’re committed to being stronger, happier, braver, more resilient and want in-depth personalized support rewiring your perfectionism, Perfectionism Optimized 1-1 coaching is for you! Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/optimized
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If I'm Not Judgmental..how do I know i'm right?
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