If it could happen to Frank? WHO TF IZ U?!🙆🏾‍♂️

How much money does a man have to make? How much fame? How much sense? What does it actually take to avoid the kind of public embarrassment Frank Edoho is going through right now?This episode isn't about Frank Edoho or Chike specifically, the full truth of what happened between them isn't fully known. But the situation forced a bigger conversation about where men actually draw their ethical lines, why some lines hold and others don't, and whether the structure most men are operating in (one woman, all your reputation in one place) Is the best to protect their name.Koke shares the three things a bolt driver once told him no man should do to guarantee a good afterlife. He talks about the line he almost crossed once, and why he believes it was fate rather than discipline that pulled him back. He gets into the difference between spiritual consequences and human ones and why what Frank Edoho decides to do matters more than what Amadioha does.And then the question: Frank Edoho has seen everything. Women have thrown themselves at him his entire life. He's smart enough to read people. How did he still end up here? And if he couldn't avoid it, who can?The episode closes on a take that will divide the comments: whether one man, one woman, the system that makes this kind of embarrassment so total and so public, was ever a natural fit for African men in the first place.Drop your thoughts in the comments. We're reading them. ★ Support this podcast ★