If someone dies, do you tell the family at 2am or wait until the morning? episode artwork

EPISODE · May 11, 2026 · 22 MIN

If someone dies, do you tell the family at 2am or wait until the morning?

from Anele and the Club on 947 · host 947

There’s a debate happening online after a woman in America shared that her sister texted her in the middle of the night saying simply: “Hey, ma’s dead.” And now people are asking… if someone dies at 2am, do you wake the family up immediately or do you wait until the morning? Some people say bad news can’t wait. If it’s your mother, father, child or sibling, you deserve to know immediately no matter the time. Others feel there’s a right way to do it. A phone call feels cold enough already, a text message feels almost cruel. A lot of people online are saying if it’s immediate family, you don’t text. You drive there. You sit with them. But then others argue: what if the person needs time to process before the morning? What if waiting feels dishonest? So what’s the right thing to do? Wake them up at 2am? Or let them sleep one last peaceful night before telling them the bad news? Hang out with Anele and The Club on 947 every weekday morning. Popular radio hosts Anele Mdoda, Frankie du Toit, Thembekile Mrototo, and Cindy Poluta take fun to the next level with the biggest guests, hottest conversations, feel-good vibes, and the best music to get you going! Kick-start your day with the most enjoyable way to wake up in Joburg. Connect with Anele and The Club on 947 via WhatsApp at 084 000 0947 or call the studio on 011 88 38 947Thank you for listening to the Anele and the Club podcast..Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 06:00 to 09:00 to Anele and the Club broadcast on 947 https://buff.ly/y34dh8Y For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/gyWKIkl or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/K59GRzu Subscribe to the 947s Weekly Newsletter https://buff.ly/hf9IuR9 Follow us on social media:947 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/947Joburg/ 947 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@947joburg947 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/947joburg947 on X: www.x.com/947 947 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@947JoburgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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