If That Ain’t a Narcissist | Episode 74

Episode 74 of She Said It First is the perfect mix of therapy, foolishness, and girl math. Jerrilyn Lake (aka Indeskribeabull) and Lynee’ Monae are back in person and on a roll, kicking things off with What Irritated Me the Most This Week, where Jerrilyn calls out her rebellious dog, Toto, for testing her authority like a toddler with fur. Meanwhile, Lynee’ vents about her therapist turning the tables and diagnosing her as the problem — the ultimate betrayal. Between dog drama and therapy trauma, the ladies agree: sometimes healing feels a lot like being humbled.  In Girl, What Happened, the conversation turns to Young Thug’s viral comments about why his girlfriend doesn’t “need” therapy — because apparently, talking to him is enough. The ladies immediately sound the alarm on narcissism, dragging men who confuse control with love and wisdom with Wi-Fi. With their signature humor and clarity, they unpack how therapy isn’t weakness, it’s maintenance — and why your “OGs” from the block are not a substitute for licensed professionals. They also tear into the idea that women’s worth is tied to marriage and motherhood, hilariously reminding nosy relatives to “swallow your tongue and go to hell” before asking, “when you gonna have a baby?” Jerrilyn and Lynee’ also mention Kai Cenat celebrating 1 million subscribers on Twitch by cutting his dreads. They spoke about what they would do when they hit that milestone across various social media platforms.   Finally, in Girl Talk, Jerrilyn and Lynee’ celebrate women in the WNBA for demanding fair pay and knowing their worth, tying it back to their own experiences of advocating for themselves in corporate jobs and creative spaces. The episode wraps with a candid, hilarious reflection on “the pivot” — how both hosts have learned to reinvent themselves, build new lanes, and turn side quests into paychecks. Whether they’re dragging toxic men, corporate underpay, or bad advice, one thing’s clear: She Said It First is where laughter and life lessons go hand in hand — and sometimes off-script.  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@u1pn  Follow:  @urban1podcast   @indeskribeabull    @lynee_monae  Executive Producer:  Jahi Whitehead/ @Jahi_TRG  Video/Social Media Producer:  Walter Gainer II See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.