If They Would Change... I would be Happy. Letting go of Codependence

Our suffering and discomfort often comes from our wish for others to change or be or do things  differently.  We think that if they would just change we could finally be happy.  However, when we put the emphasis on others to change for us to be happy, we are giving our power  away to where we have no control.  By turning the attention to ourselves, and being responsible for our own happiness our lives can change drastically.  We can't make someone stop drinking, or behaving in destructive ways- but we can stop obsessing over their behaviors, being codependent and controlled by their choices.  We can choose to have a happy and healthy life by leaning on the spiritual tools we have learned in Soul Recovery.  Happiness is an inside job and we can take responsibly for our emotions and life choices. For more information about Rev. Rachel Harrison and Recover Your Soul- visit the website www.recoveryoursoul.net  use the code TRYASESSION for 40% off your first Spiritual Coaching session when you book on the website. Soul Recovery Support Group on Zoom -The 1st Monday of the Month, 6PM Mountain Time. This is a drop in support group where we can come together to explore, connect and support each other on our Soul Recovery journey.  Visit the website to register and receive the meeting invite.  Free to attend- donations appreciated.Together we can do the work that will recover your soul.To access a transcript of this episode visit https://recoveryoursoul.buzzsprout.com/This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest. Support the showSend a one way text to Rev Rachel 🦋 The Recovery Your Soul Podcast courses and content is for educational purposes only and is not affiliated with or representative of any organization, recovery group, or religion. And reflect the personal experience and opinions of Rev Rachel Harrison and her guests. RYS claims no responsibility, any person or entity for any loss, liability, damage caused or alleged to be caused, direct or indirectly by the use application or interpretation of the information presented within. Support the showFREE Mini Recover Your Soul 9-Step WorkbookFREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the MonthSelf Study collective &  Soul Circles to walk the Recover Your Soul Steps in CommunityGet the Book Recover Your Soul, Rev. Rachel’s spiritual memoir  1:1 Spiritual Coaching with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Follow on Social MediaRYS Bonus Podcast  Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts for corresponding episodes. Free Patreon Members get access to new episodes first few weeks.Transcripts