If You Can't Talk About Sex, Sex Will Always Feel Hard

Talking about sex shouldn't feel scarier than the act itself - but for many couples, it does.In this solo episode, I explore why sexual communication feels so difficult for so many married couples, especially those shaped by silence, shame, or “don’t ask, don’t tell” messages around intimacy. If you love your spouse but freeze, fight, or shut down when sex comes up, this episode is for you.You’ll learn why avoiding these conversations doesn’t protect your relationship, how emotional safety impacts desire, and where to start if you’ve never talked about sex before—without pressure or overwhelm.This episode is especially for couples who want deeper connection but don’t know how to begin the conversation.Resources for this episode:She Deserves Better, by Sheila Wray GregoireIntimate ConversationsCoaching with Angela, The Christian SexpertTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.