If You're Too Big to Serve, You're Too Small to Lead

Send us Fan MailThe wilderness seasons of our lives often feel like punishment, but what if they're actually preparation? In this thought-provoking episode, the Almost Brothers tackle the challenging concept of waiting in a world obsessed with immediate results and overnight success.Mike shares how his 20 years of behind-the-scenes ministry work prepared him for his current platform, drawing a powerful parallel to photography: just as film must be developed in darkness before a beautiful image emerges, our character and purpose often develop best in those obscure, unseen seasons. "You have to be developed in the darkness before you can ever see what the picture looked like," he explains, offering a fresh perspective on those frustrating periods of waiting.The guys coin a powerful phrase during their discussion: "If you're too big to serve, you're too small to lead." This encapsulates their exploration of how leadership requires humility and a willingness to do unglamorous work. They share personal examples of cleaning toilets and vacuuming churches—even as pastors—highlighting that no task should be beneath a true leader. This counter-cultural message challenges our instant-gratification mindset where platforms are desired without the foundational work of serving others.Looking at biblical examples like David, who spent years as a shepherd before becoming king, they reveal how these waiting periods aren't wasted time but essential preparation. Whether you're waiting for a career breakthrough, ministry opportunity, or personal relationship development, this episode offers perspective, hope, and practical wisdom for navigating your wilderness seasons with purpose. As Tyler reflects on his 3.5-year wait before expecting twins, the message becomes clear: sometimes what feels like God saying "no" is actually His preparation for something even better He has planned.What wilderness are you currently walking through, and what might it be preparing you for? Listen, subscribe, and join the conversation!Support the showPlease share and SUBSCRIBE!!!If you are able ... would you help us in becoming a subscriber and helping us get the word out.   https://www.buzzsprout.com/1133780/supportThinking about starting a podcast. Check out our affiliate link here.Listen on apple hereFacebook Listen on Spotify here