Ep 14 - “I’m Not Attracted To You”: Dr Connie Kerali on Dating, Low Self-Esteem & Self-Acceptance

In this week's episode of Speak Shame with Dr Connie Kerali, Darleen Davies, an International Career and Mindset Coach, takes over guest hosting duties. The episode dives into the theme of dating shame, beginning with Dr Connie sharing her formative 'Good Girl' chapter. They delve into the impact of perfectionism and people-pleasing on her life and relationships, especially in the context of dating. Dr Connie opens up about how therapy helped her confront her low self-esteem and transform her dating experiences, leading to a healthier relationship with herself and eventually finding unconditional love. The conversation also emphasises the power of self-acceptance and self-compassion and ends with a tribute to her remarkable mother. 00:36 Meet Dr Connie & Guest Host, Darleen02:02 The Good Girl Chapter03:29 Perfectionism and Worth06:50 Losing Yourself to Fit In07:46 Dating as a Late Bloomer09:52 Surface Level Relationships14:56 Therapy as a Turning Point17:59 Alopecia Date Revelation22:49 Building Self Worth Foundations27:51 Dating With Confidence29:37 Coming Home With Dave33:18 Advice for People Pleasers35:36 Honouring a Remarkable Mum DARLEEN DAVIES·      Website: DarleenDaviesCoaching.com·      Instagram: @DarleenDaviesCoaching GET IN TOUCHJoin the community:@StoriesWithoutShame on InstagramSign up for the Stories Without Shame newsletter to join the movement.