I’m Thinking About Divorce. Where Do I Even Start?

Episode Summary In this episode, Attorney Mary Ewing shares what to expect when you’re just starting to think about divorce—and how to approach those first steps with clarity and confidence. With over 40 years of experience in Colorado family law, Mary offers calm, practical advice for navigating one of life’s hardest transitions. From emotional preparation and financial organization to common mistakes and the legal process itself, this episode helps you understand what divorce really looks like, what to avoid early on, and how to protect yourself and your children along the way. Key Timestamps 00:30 –  Why the first stage of divorce isn’t legal—it’s emotional—and how to regain a sense of calm and control. 01:30 –  Mary explains the three key areas to evaluate: safety, communication, and information. 02:45 –  Debunking the myth that one spouse must be “at fault” to file for divorce. 03:30 –  Important documents to prepare—bank statements, deeds, tax returns, pay stubs, and more. 05:00 –  How Mary blends strategy and support during the initial consultation and what happens in Colorado’s 91-day waiting period. 06:30 –  Social media posts, moving money, leaving the home without a plan, and relying on verbal agreements—why these can all backfire. 08:10 –  How to stay focused, build a support system, and make calm, informed decisions. 09:45 –  The importance of focusing on children’s best interests and how Colorado defines “parenting time” and “parental responsibilities.” 11:30 –  Mary’s message for those feeling scared, uncertain, or emotionally overwhelmed. About the Show The Mary Ewing Law Show helps Colorado residents understand their legal rights in family law, workers’ compensation, and personal injury. With more than four decades of experience, Attorney Mary Ewing provides steady, compassionate guidance through life’s toughest legal challenges—helping clients protect what matters most.