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EPISODE · Mar 24, 2026 · 23 MIN

I’m Tired of Working on Myself

from The Midlife Edit · host Jen Weinstein

Lately, I’ve had a thought I almost didn’t want to say out loud…What if I’m just tired of working on myself?In this solo episode, I’m talking about the constant pressure to fix, optimize, and improve every part of our lives—and how exhausting that can become, especially in midlife.From conflicting health advice to mindset overload, it feels like there’s always something we should be doing better. And at some point, it stops feeling helpful… and starts feeling overwhelming.I’m also sharing a bit about my own reset right now—what I’m changing, why I’m doing it, and how this time feels different. Not from a place of “fixing,” but from a place of wanting to feel like me again.If you’ve been feeling off, overwhelmed, or just tired of trying to do everything “right”… this one’s for you.🎧 IN THIS EPISODE Why self-improvement can start to feel like pressure instead of growth  The overwhelming amount of conflicting advice in health, mindset, and life  How we internalize the idea that we must be doing something wrong  The reality of perimenopause symptoms and why so many women feel “off”  My personal reset (AIP, hormones, and getting back to basics)  Why not everything needs to be optimized—or even healed  Learning to trust yourself again instead of every voice online 💭 KEY TAKEAWAYS You are not broken—you might just be overloaded  Not everything needs fixing, optimizing, or healing  It’s okay to question the constant pressure to improve  Your experience is valid, even if no one has clear answers  Sometimes the goal isn’t to become someone new—it’s to come back to yourself 🎶 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE “Grey Street” – Dave Matthews Band🫶 CONNECT WITH MEInstagram: @TheJenWeinstein TikTok: @TheJenWeinstein🔁 SHARE THE EPISODEIf this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. And if you haven’t already—follow, rate, and review The Midlife Edit so we can keep growing this community together.✨ FINAL NOTEThis is your midlife edit— so let’s make it a damn good chapter.

Lately, I’ve had a thought I almost didn’t want to say out loud…What if I’m just tired of working on myself?In this solo episode, I’m talking about the constant pressure to fix, optimize, and improve every part of our lives—and how exhausting that can become, especially in midlife.From conflicting health advice to mindset overload, it feels like there’s always something we should be doing better. And at some point, it stops feeling helpful… and starts feeling overwhelming.I’m also sharing a bit about my own reset right now—what I’m changing, why I’m doing it, and how this time feels different. Not from a place of “fixing,” but from a place of wanting to feel like me again.If you’ve been feeling off, overwhelmed, or just tired of trying to do everything “right”… this one’s for you.🎧 IN THIS EPISODE Why self-improvement can start to feel like pressure instead of growth  The overwhelming amount of conflicting advice in health, mindset, and life  How we internalize the idea that we must be doing something wrong  The reality of perimenopause symptoms and why so many women feel “off”  My personal reset (AIP, hormones, and getting back to basics)  Why not everything needs to be optimized—or even healed  Learning to trust yourself again instead of every voice online 💭 KEY TAKEAWAYS You are not broken—you might just be overloaded  Not everything needs fixing, optimizing, or healing  It’s okay to question the constant pressure to improve  Your experience is valid, even if no one has clear answers  Sometimes the goal isn’t to become someone new—it’s to come back to yourself 🎶 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE “Grey Street” – Dave Matthews Band🫶 CONNECT WITH MEInstagram: @TheJenWeinstein TikTok: @TheJenWeinstein🔁 SHARE THE EPISODEIf this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it. And if you haven’t already—follow, rate, and review The Midlife Edit so we can keep growing this community together.✨ FINAL NOTEThis is your midlife edit— so let’s make it a damn good chapter.

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