In Defense Of Describable Dating Preferences

The New York Times has an article on "dating docs". These are a local phenomenon - I think an ex of mine might have been Patient Zero. I don't begrudge the Times for writing about them. I'm just surprised they're considered an interesting phenomenon. What could be more obvious than making sure potential dates know what you're like? https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/in-defense-of-describable-dating